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Communication stands as a cornerstone in couples therapy, serving as a linchpin for understanding, connection, and resolution. Effective communication is not merely about conveying information but encompasses the ability to express emotions, needs, and vulnerabilities openly while actively listening to one’s partner. Couples therapy often involves unpacking communication patterns, identifying barriers to effective interaction, and fostering healthier ways of expressing thoughts and feelings. Through improved communication, couples can deepen their understanding of each other, address conflicts constructively, and build a foundation of trust and intimacy. The therapeutic process equips couples with valuable tools to enhance their communication skills, promoting a more empathetic and collaborative approach that strengthens the fabric of their relationship.
Attachment plays a pivotal role in couples therapy, serving as the emotional foundation that shapes the dynamics and interactions between partners. Formed in early relationships, attachment patterns influence how individuals bond, communicate, and navigate intimacy within romantic partnerships. Couples therapy often focuses on understanding each partner’s attachment style, whether it be secure, anxious, or avoidant, as these patterns significantly impact the way individuals express needs, handle conflict, and seek emotional support. By recognizing and addressing attachment dynamics, couples can gain insights into their relational patterns, foster secure connections, enhance communication, gain empathy, and promote a sense of emotional safety within the relationship, ultimately contributing to the growth and longevity of the partnership.
Betrayal is a profoundly complex and emotionally charged aspect of couples therapy that necessitates delicate exploration and healing. Whether stemming from infidelity, breaches of trust, or other forms of relational transgressions, addressing betrayal in therapy is crucial for rebuilding the shattered foundation of trust and safety in the relationship. Couples therapy provides a safe space for both partners to express their emotions, articulate the impact of the betrayal, and navigate the intricate web of emotions, such as hurt and anger. By working with betrayal, couples can embark on a journey of healing, rebuilding trust, and ultimately forging a path toward renewed connection and resilience in their relationship.
Psychodynamic therapy in couples therapy delves into the deep-seated emotions, unconscious patterns, and early life experiences that shape individuals and their relationships. Rooted in psychoanalytic principles, psychodynamic couples therapy seeks to explore the underlying dynamics and unresolved conflicts that influence the couple’s interactions. Therapists guide partners in examining their emotional histories, attachment styles, and interpersonal patterns to gain insight into the dynamics at play within the relationship. By bringing these unconscious processes to light, couples can develop a deeper understanding of each other, identify recurring patterns, and work collaboratively to address unresolved issues. Psychodynamic couples therapy aims not only to alleviate current relational challenges but also to foster long-term personal growth and a more profound connection between partners.
Our Approach to Couples Therapy
Relationships are extremely beneficial to overall psychological wellness, and they also can be complex and complicated. In fact, current research indicates that the health of our relationships and how connected we feel to others is the best predictor of overall mental health. A variety of unresolved issues can get in the way of healthy functioning romantic or family relationships. Working with a skilled therapist can be beneficial to couples and families who are looking to strengthen their emotional connection. We offer clients a unique skill set having been trained by some of the top sex, love, and relationship experts in the world through IITAP. Dysfunctional romantic relationships have 3 options: end, evolve/change, or stay the same. We help clients change their relationships for the better to regain connection, functionality, trust, effective communication, and love within relationships.